occasionally, i spend a few minutes on pinterest to kinda let myself be braindead for a bit, while leaving the possibility open of finding some good 'someday' ideas to do around the house or with the kids. the trouble is, if one goes outside of the pinners followed, one will have to wade through a lot of trash. some of the pins i wouldn't dare pin here to highlight their trashiness.
many times, i find it distressing to see where our culture is headed when i wade the waters of pinterest. i think the images today's culture likes, are very telling.
one thing i think we can do for our kids and ourselves, or whoever we're with, is to identify the lies that we're being fed by media and culture in general. and when possible, tell the truth insead. here are a few i noticed today...
many times, i find it distressing to see where our culture is headed when i wade the waters of pinterest. i think the images today's culture likes, are very telling.
one thing i think we can do for our kids and ourselves, or whoever we're with, is to identify the lies that we're being fed by media and culture in general. and when possible, tell the truth insead. here are a few i noticed today...
at first glance, this just sounds trickster. it sounds like a hack to get free stuff. while the blogger claims it is totally legit, i still wonder. she admits it isn't EXACTLY true. and i notice that she did NOT change the button, probably because it draws readers to her site. the point is, that people ARE willing to do shady dealings to get free stuff. yesterday, i was at the airline ticketing office. i REALLY wanted to pay for my parents' tickets (they're coming for Christmas!!) with my credit card because i would then avoid the $10 it costs to withdraw cash from the machine. but get this, the airline (international airline, might i add?) doesn't allow you to pay online with a credit card (even visa!), neither does the ticketing office doesn't accept credit cards for a reservation made online. neither do the banks. aaaghh! cash only? where are we, the jungle or something?! anyway, the guy told me, "hey, here's how you can work it so that they'll accept your credit card purchase... call the customer help line and tell them you went to the bank to pay and their system was down. insist that you need to pay for this today (oh well, that the flights are a month away). then they'll authorize me to do the credit card transaction. people do it all the time."
i wavered a little, not because i would do it, i admit i wished i could, but because i didn't know whether or not to tell him why i wouldn't. it briefly crossed my mind, 'i'll just pay cash and not say anything about it. he'll never know.' but then i decided, no. it's right to tell him that i won't and why. so as he tried to convince me, i said, 'i know that everyone else might do it, but i can't. i can't because i can't be dishonest. it's wrong.' i think he was surprised. and a little embarrassed. maybe. :) we've talked before. i'll see him again, and we'll talk again. i know he'll know that we're christians, after all, my husband is a missionary celebrity in town. ;) but, my point is, that we MUST be scrupulously honest. and be outspoken about it. if every christian and honest person would, it'd be one small way we could hold back the tide of serious culture degeneration.
the pinner commented, "the only tele-evangelist that doesn't scare me."
sad on two counts. there aren't many tele-evangelists that scare anyone...in the right way, that is. AND he doesn't scare her because though he's on the television, he's clearly not evangelizing. what he says makes people who don't love Christ feel good about where they're at. the gospel IS actually scary for those who refuse to accept it. life without Christ IS scary.
...and then there was this one. and it brightened my day immensely. but not in the way the pinner intended it:
i have this. and so can you.
ask me how.
:)
...neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation...
surpassing knowledge...
ask me how.
:)
...neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation...
surpassing knowledge...







3 comments:
Hi Amy,
Super post.
I am Alison, living in Switzerland. I stumbled across your blog, and I love your thoughts. I hope you don't mind me reading them!
Imagine how different all communities would be if people only told the truth (re your point one in this blog)? Or tried, at least. I think it is extremely difficult to be purely honest, but the point is to always try. That sort of sounds lame, but I do think it is a constant learning over our lives, about the full value of truth... eg as a teenager, you're sitting lazily on the sofa and your mum says "have you done the dishes yet?" and you say "I was just getting up to do them"... :-)...I think we learn early to mould the truth a little to not make others or uncomfortable...it's not right, but in my observations it seems to be a process of understanding the full value of truth and also being brave (as you were with the credit card story - it took you some thinking and courage) ... and the point is to keep trying and say sorry along the way. (I hope that doesn't sound like a cop-out; I fully believe in full honesty, but I think it is an adult skill as we grow in confidence to fully follow what we believe.)
I am convinced this is why we are given a conscience - to keep us growing and moving towards truth, and that it is a journey (and so worthwhile).
Anyway, love your post(s) because you say things that others find hard to say. You say it simply and well and these things need to be heard.
My very best wishes from the alps to the jungle,
Alison
@alison,
thanks for taking the time to comment, and with such encouragement! :)
just after i posted this, my son pointed out a chapter in 'whatever happened to justice', in which the author includes stats that say countries with honesty as best policy are always better off, while the more corrupt, the worse the quality of life... very interesting. he thought G.Washington's statement very inspirational: "I hope I shall always possess firmness and virtue enough to maintain what I consider the most enviable of all titles, the character of an 'Honest Man.'"
i've also recently read Francis Bacon's essays, a couple of which were really good on the topic... :)
i do think it is important to be honest even in the small stuff! and yeah, no one is perfectly honest already, but as you said, identifying it when we mess up, saying sorry, and fixing the problem! it's so easy to become lax about it...
ever upwards, ever more like Christ. :)
thank you ever so much for saying hello, it was a bright spot in my day :)
Amy....
So great to get your answer. Have to process it properly (which I will do, but cannot in this busy moment), but just wanted to send you rapidly a thanks back across the oceans... cos it's COOL we can do that with technology!
Sending you a snowy hello from Switz to your jungles,
Alison
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